So I am always alone,our communication is not fully connected, he has no time to talk everything with me, causing a lot of misunderstanding. In my home ward, the non-member son of one of the members of the Bishopbric was able to stand up with the Priesthood and hold his baby girl while they gave her baby blessing. She got engaged 3 months later. Oh this is a great set of questions. He would not appreciate my sacrifice of course, because they are often very self-center mind. She said we couldn't watch it because the lady who produced the doc was formerly a professor at BYU but has since left the church, so she wouldn't have anything good to say.
However, we rarely ever see each other and don't talk that much in between. Would she be okay with never being married in the temple. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. I can only say that I was that girl, 10 years ago. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. He's a big boy and can make up his own mind. He may never want anything to do with Mormons or the church again. Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else.
He's not home much and his hours are crazy but, wow, I am one happy woman. Even Mormon girls who marry non-Mormons want great dads for their kids, and they are oriented to having kids, sometimes many kids. But the issue of marrying a non-member raises two fundamental problems: That idea seems so contrary to the nature of God. All the other stuffв is crap. Somewhere down the road, you will find another girl who will be a much better match for you. Here is a list of reasons I feel apply to my situation в some of them in retrospect:. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this.
Many Mormons stick to a small group of friends within the church. Not all of us are able to achieve that ideal but we are to strive for it. Does she understand that for a long-term relationship to succeed that the partners must treat each other as equals. He later converted to her faith and was called to be a temple sealer. That was literally over years ago. I know kids and a house will make our time together challenging, but for as long as I have known him his family is the most important thing and he makes sure to keep a strong relationships between them. Work on myself, not him.