Just like women need a lot of attention when it comes to their body parts during sex, men do too. They will also prefer it if you handle their body, especially the penis in a particular way. Lightly tap up and down his shaft with your fingers, like you're playing a piano with one hand. This helps him get and stay hard by keeping blood flowing into the spongy tissue of his penis. Stroke down his length with one hand to make the skin taut and expose more nerve endings. Then wrap your other hand around the head of his penis and slide it up and down. Use a drop of lube to make sure you don't chafe his sensitive skin. Take his penis between your open palms and, using your hands like ping-pong paddles, very lightly bat it back and forth. The quick touches feel invigorating and increase circulation to the surface of the skin.

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First things first, lubricate those hands of yours! No guy wants your bone-dry palms moving up and down his dick. It causes friction and it hurts. You can use your own saliva, but it dries up quickly. Second thing, get comfortable. Alternative hand job positions include: him standing in front of you while you sit on the bed, you lying on your back while he straddles your stomach, and you nestling between his legs, facing him.
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