And of course, everyone has a different experience. Many, many lapsed Mormons catch the true vision of the gospel at some time in their lives and desire to repent and become observant again. Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic.
Build a life of your own but, make them your priority. That being sais, just be honest. Every new set will see your man with fresh and hungry eyes as a potential golden contact. It is nice to hear that I am not alone, and that we can do it. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment. I know many of you understand how Im feeling and a lot of you have been there for many years already. It's easy to be blind to deal-breaking faults when you are young and in love. If you don't want your "golden ticket" of the good life, then give me your golden ticket. She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. I just graduated college and my boyfriend has one more year.
Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. But God works in mysterious ways. She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that. There are so many names in both English and Chinese. That is a hard truth. I've supported him for 5 years, taken on that Doctor's Partner role, put my ambitions on the back burner, and it hasn't done a lick of good.
She will not marry you until you convert to mormonism whole cloth. Interesting to read the concerns of so many doctor's wives. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. I wouldn't just give up, but be wary. You and your husband are truly a team, even though things are not always equal. I wouldn't just start bringing up the ces letter and the problems in it. I feel like I belong to a sisterhood who understand my life. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. Catholics basically married catholics and protestants basically married protestants.