Hopefully this helped a little bit. And as many posters stated, it is something that needs to be seriously discussed with your potential partner. I love him so much, but it's torture spending so much time without him. If he is the right person for me, then I would wait and deal with the busy schedule in the meantime.
No one could compare to the man I married. It has nothing to do with their career. The important thing is doing it together. I'm sorry you may be hearing a lot of negativity from us. Honestly I'd let things keep going. Some other times I feel alone in my marriage. My religious faith saved my sanity but I still worry. I know my husband appreciates me looking into it because he knows I am doing it to gain an understanding into the culture he was raised in. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance.
That my heavenly father hates my decision to marry my husband. Basically this is different than dating a religious mainstream Christian. We have to show them we care. I work 54 hours a week to be able to support myself my family is unable to help more than they already arevolunteer, am taking a class, and mcat studying. When I talk to him about this he seems to agree that he doesn't like the person he's becoming and doesn't look forward to a career in medicine, but says he can't leave medicine.
I can say this. If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity. Love and support them just as you would if your husband was a carpenter. Most want nothing to do with the church.