She won't marry you. And don't fall for all their talk of being open and welcoming. Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. Which is the highest place in heaven aka celestial kingdom. Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. In the meantime, she will probably view you as being less than a Mormon man who is a faithful priesthood holder.
Where do you find Mormon girls. You see, I am the guy, and she is the established doctor dermatologist. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. I am a soon-to-be Surgeon's wife and my boyfriend and I have started discussing the changes that are going to happen when he enters his residency. If she can see that YOU are what is important in the relationship, not what you or she believes, ya'll have a chance. I say to you, decisions determine destiny. I miss him so much. IE в the comment about not having a husband to give priesthood blessings, etc. My husband, regardless of religious affiliation, is a beloved son of our Heavenly Father who is very much worthy of my love, affection and dedication.
In many ways, she was everything that I ever wanted in a spouse, but in other ways she was not what I ever expected. All people see is the money and that's it. I only hate one thing in the planet, and that's the Mormon church. While you will be of the right age to date, the Church discourages you from trying to date someone while on your mission trip. Trust me, though--you will. If so, then step away from the internet and go look him in the eyes and take his hands and start asking him all the questions you asked me. We are indeed in two different places. He is truly my soulmate and I shudder to think that if I had not chosen to marry outside of the church, I would not have had this life with him. I disagree with the doctrines and practices of the LDS church. Too bad she couldn't handle the guilt and remorse.
In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. It really has been helpful. So I feel like we have to wait yet another year just for the daunting part of it to start. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse. Why Mormons don't hate gay people. And what happens when we have kids?. Marrying a non-Mormon is not something you do it is something that happens. If I just assume he won't be home to eat dinner with us, it's a happy surprise when he is. But I've met those 3 dates to engagement couples. It will definitely take patience to work through any of this with her but it sounds like she's a pretty awesome person.