I know, I know, this is the last thing you want to hear. Her brain has been wired from birth by said cult. My daughter thinks it's funny that she's known her SO 4 years - not ready for marriage. I'm really glad to hear a few of you have stories of happy interfaith relationships, or leaving the church together, so there's always a chance. When you try to explain to them why the church would not publish said info on their own website they get mad at you and tell you you're ignorant. I would never change my decision to marry him. Facebook Email Twitter Print. Would she be okay with having a home that is split religiously. The truth is I miss being together. If you can only think of alcohol and coffee for a good time, you're very disappointed.
Did this article help you. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for. Chances are you can't though.
I just found your blog. I can be part of a church family whether my spouse goes or not. He want to wait at least one year before he makes any decision he want to take it slow. I do not threaten lightly. I have had several people tell me that now that they know our family all preconceived notions of the "doctor's wife" and the lifestyle of a doctor have completely changed. To the two wondering sistersвYou both appear to be with loving, incredibly supportive men. Will he be happy knowing that you are giving up something of incredible importance to you. If they believe their religion, they will ultimately cause you pain and disappointment. I am an extrovert too, I do feel lonely when my husband is not around on weekends or holidays or when I fall sick. I'd suggest taking issue with things that specifically bug you the most.
A lot of Mormons think that good people will obviously recognize the truthfulness of the church and quickly join. I would have been deeply insulted if anyone talked about me the way people are talking about this girl He needs to tell her there is a no chance he will convert, that he is not comfortable with his children being raised Mormon if he isn'tthat she cannot ever expect a temple marriage with him. I have suggested a date night just for us but, he doesn't want a scheduled night for dates. That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here.