But daughter and I agreed that this teaching was unhealthy. She's really attractive, too. We still joke about the latter. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse. Because if you can't live and let live, you both need to dive deep into this stuff and figure out what you believe and want in your life. When I hear some of the issues going on in Mormon Land, I usually say to myselfв. If you want to go against that trend, one of you will almost certainly change perspective. I am willing to add his religious observances to our worship as a couple and as a family, but should I also be willing to give up some of my participation in my own faith в for example by attending the temple or Sunday services slightly less often in order to spend more time as an entire family.
That is her ultimate goal when it comes to dating and choosing potential mates. It is really hard and so good to see that I am not alone in this. Ask him if he's not seeing you to not commit. Have any of you wives found the same thing. Never seen it happen. I respect what my husband does but I have nothing but my pets and a dusty Ivy Leaguedegree.
You are a good person. But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. Life is too short. Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding. All I can think about is the fact that his schedule means that I will have to be the one to shoulder all the parenting and household responsibilities. I would love any advice you can give. We try to make this place a little better than we found it.
I am worried I won't be able to give him my everything, and the wonderful years of commitment and time spent with him will one day only be memories: Becoming a doctor is my dream, and I have worked incredibly hard thus far. The point made was that a parallel can be drawn between interfaith and interracial marriages. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together. The divorce factor may allow some women to experience single-faith marriage at some point as some Mormon men marry multiple Mormon women over the course of their lifetimes, but the overall point stands: The only options for these women involve seeking a partner outside of the church, or a lifetime of celibacy. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. This is crunch time and years worth of effort are on the line for him. Should I stay or let him do his thing. Warnings While the LDS Church accepts that those who feel attraction to members of their own sex can be Mormons, it discourages acting on those feelings. If you really care and think this is the lifestyle you wanted then go ahead.